HOW TO LEARN MORE ENGLISH WORDS

 HOW TO LEARN MORE ENGLISH WORDS

Today it's all about learning new English at a rapid and steady rate......Here's let us master the technique how to kick-start it and take the first few Baby steps, having said that Reading books is pretty assured and cool way and an all time recipe to have that English happening in you...........👇

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MOM PARENTING STYLE AND PARENTING TIPS

 Hey to all out there

Check out my previous post for the first portion.....

Continuing my diction on parenting left you with the final topic "stays pampered in cases"

*Have trouble spending their leisure time 

Yeah,this is the million dollar question of many Mommys,getting their kids engaged in a leisure routine.I always find this effective only when it is patterned according to the skillsets and interests of the child, well relaxation is nothing but doing something out of the routine.So the best thing is to get them doing something apart from their normal tasks beginning with little things like craft making,a sport engaging one or two players, painting or something like a Simply Piano exercise to do.Most of the ill things what kids do latter in their lives are formed only in the leisure time where they don't know what to do.So it's really, really important that they know how to manage their leisure time right from when they are small.....Mostly their loneliness get's them easily obsessed with gadgets or social media or may be Television it's good that we never get to encourage them doing it.

*Either are too talkative or reserved.This is a common problem among kids, either they find themselves very reluctant to talk things, address people or they get too talkative because they are left alone most of the time and feel like to vent out their feelings or emotions.....

*Exhibit possessiveness with people and things, they being single children and most of them normally have been the centre of attraction in their homes.....or family circles this get's them into the tendency of being possessive with people,relatives or things......The solution will be like possible with getting them exposed to family friendships,teaching them a bit of people handling and there's to be possessive about, their loved ones are always their loved ones but that they could open out much more.....

*Less sportsmanship is that they don't and can't take failures, defeats lightly, it is very important to indicate that they get introduced to failures learning how to handle them from when they are very small itself.........Please do teach them failures, when you face failures and your better ways of handling them shows them a valid example to practise too......

*Lack of sibling support or scarce friendship,In the long run they tend to become very closed, inexpressive at many a times.Problem in expression of thought arises, either making the child an introvert or extrovert.This even leads the children to situations where they don't convey their health issues properly or they don't know doing it....

A good social and school atmosphere is more motivating to the child as a solution to this problem instead of blindly practising home schooling.This goes a long way in making the child escape being an introvert........At times find very tough to handle things even petite things due to the attention given to them

The entire solution put in a nutshell to handle a single child lies in grooming the child to be independent in it's life, making them financially independent keeping their self confidence a bit high but emotionally dependent on parents, family and a healthy friend circle if achievable........

Hope this get's you going raising your child in a healthy way re insisting never to over parent the child doing all that's mentioned in my humble list invisibly like a catalyst.

Good luck

Wish and hope my post would have provided some insight towards parenting to you to an extent.

Suggested 

By Jane Fernandez

SINGLE CHILD STRUGGLE

  HI ALL

For all those Mommys over there......

Parenting in general is a wonderful yet huge responsibility for anyone.When it comes to "Single child",it is a real challenge..Though the option has become quite common.Parenting is glorious, purposeful but at times tedious...Lesser the number doesn't truly mean lesser the responsibility.Infact I would say it's more intense and elaborate...atleast till the child becomes independent.Without complaining we could actually try taking it light and perhaps do we'll

Well,I am too a Mommy of a single child.You would have become a Mommy with a single child due to various constraints and reasons.I don't wanna preach here but would love to share and help u out with what I believe,do and in fact what works out for me.Not forgetting the fact that we get umpteen number of advices flowing from all around at times carelessly rendered and confusing...

Common problems both on parent's and children's side would widely be with a single child

*Naughtiness/Hyperactiveness

*Laziness

*Disobedience or back answering

*Disrespect

*Lack of understanding or analysing people

*Rarely arrogance,adamence

*Not with an attitude to share *Not empathetic or even able understand other/elders perspective

*Stays pampered in cases

*Have trouble spending their leisure time 

*Either are too talkative or reserved

*Exhibit possessiveness with people and things

*Less sportsmanship

*Lack of sibling support or scarce friendship

*Get easily obsessed with gadgets or social media or may be Television

*Problem in expression of thought, either introvert or extrovert, even they don't convey their health issues properly

*At times find very tough to handle things even petite things due to the attention given to them

*Being a bit self centric

*Fear facing society and settling with new family atmospheres when demand arise

*Expect an extra dash of privacy even with parents and at home.

*Feel left out when parents get busy

*Feeling a bit of solitude at times if not getting engaged

*Low in spirits when finding siblings of schoolmates.

Well the list would keep on extending, yet never to blame the kids we make.All the above or a few of the above or even even more would or wouldn't exist in every child.....that's absolutely fine.As you would all know what the answer would be,it is only MOTHER FACTOR WITH UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OR PERHAPS A FATHER IN MANY CASES ....without a mentor like, tailor made attitude.I,on my side would luv sharing my style to deal with a few of these......accepting the fact every child is physically or mentally different....It perfectly easy to preach let me share what I PRACTICE

Disclaimer:

Never to promise to be working for absolutely busy parents dumped with work and money alone,.....these would work only for. those who have few hours for their beloved children which is real quality time

1.Naughtiness-Inquisiteness and naughtiness is an integrate part of a child.Girl or boy,a single child is always believed to be full of tantrums though necessarily need not be.I have a super Hyper daughter who drives me crazy.....Yet when a toddler many Mommy may get naturally to fix it, when he or she changes into a blooming child if it subsides fine, if not, well I engage my child giving her a skilful thing or project she gets acquainted with a bit of calming rthymic music which is quite sloppy reducing her irritability too...I even perhaps cut down her caffeine and coco intake slightly....It has worked amazingly many a times

2.Laziness-Keeping the Child's mind busy with freaky schedules moduled by her itself I ask her to plan her lazy day making it atleast very little productive for her...Not actually leaving her with her gadgets left all alone in a room.Never get them fresh with a chocolate or cocoa drink or highly sugary dessert.......That practice absolutely hard to remove from their minds

3.Disrespect-I set the first example for my daughter to be respectful to all elders no matter whatever they might be......she'z immune to that.....Try it out as soon ur child grows....On the top of it I show good movies for her with comical yet ethic filled scenes inserted in between

4.Back answering is one single thing still well all of us are struggling to come out.The prime solution you could execute when u think ur child gets to understand petite things, try telling her/hem that it was always fine for him/her to have an opinion but in case he doesn't't agree with those at home he could very well convey but with respect, politeness.Still if the child's opinion is difficult to accept could convince him/her for the time being and later explain things in ways the child could understand.This will leave a strong signal to the child to exhibit both inside and outside the family that from his/her young age he/she could have a opinion only that it has to be worded and addressessed in the right way.The child grows way matured without losing it's childishness paving a fine path when the child grows into an adult..

 5.Analysing people, though it doesn't have much to do with a child yet in today's world it's apt that the child knows to study people so that they could keep save at schooling,neighbourhood and elsewhere....Toon characteristics with different characterisations could be an excellent tip for them to get exposed to.Well a subtle contact with relatives would help a little, because neighbourhoods sometimes might not be quite possible for kids....

6.ADAMENCE AND ARROGANCE are an intrinsic part of children always especially in single kids' generic mindset develops in the child when we parents show very less of it at home, in the child's vicinity paralleling teaching them simple ways of getting things down requesting at times convincing others.

7.SHARE-Child's Resistance towards sharing is quite a common thing that everybody threatened me when I DECIDED and had, have.......a  single child.I pretty much symbolically started to convey this to my child right when she was at kindergarten so that she started to remind me to do when she sees somebody needs help and it was not an extreme philanthropic deed to do small deeds that help people.....

8.Pampering the child never helps it or rather the parent who takes care of the child.So it's only upto the family, including the grand parents who may at times be along with the  child.Indicate the child verbally or through your actions that he would not be pampered and spoiled.

Keep up the wait I shall continue to elaborate in my next blog. Parenting is really an art......

By

Jane Fernandez

LIFE MOTIVATION TIPS

                                         HI ALL,

MOTIVATION is all that all of us seek very many times in our lives, when we feel sunk deep within or at times of crisis or even often during sluggish lifestyles.To keep our spirits high even during our lows is something wondrous, makes people look upto us.YUP,we all with our simple lives could be inspirations for many who are stranded or left alone.

Well let me abbreviate on some tips to keep us all stay motivated regardless of what stuff we could be doing in our lives, which I do follow in my life.

1.Unimaginably,the few minutes or the scarce amount of time we spend doing what we are skillful at or love doing could drastically help you revive your lost energy or motivation back.This little shunting between what you like and your regular chores or career........will phenomenally make you stay motivated, not even necessarily demanding you to take a vacation or spend bucks in a foreign land.

2.Unbelievably philanthropy even at a very small scale could keep u alive.Feeling the happiness of giving is incredible.Ofcourse gratitude is a secret pill which gives you an immense quantity of joy and peace making you ponder over what you have in your life to be happy and grateful instead of being sober.

3.Nothing I would suggest or rather call THE SOLUTION  as a CHILD'S GLORIOUS SMILE to destress and get you back yourself rekindling the spirit to live your very own life.

4.SELFLESS LIFE is the one glorious and divine tip leaving you to live for those around you also rather than being self centric and dumped up.Literally,being selfless doesn't mean you don't damn care about yourself but living an empathetic life.If you love others you naturally care about you and stay fine for them.Our small deeds of kindness can make us so contented,motivated have us something to think and do with regardless of whatever pain we undergo.

5.LIVING A PURPOSEFUL LIFE IS A KEY TO BE MOTIVATED ALL OUR LIVES.A self-centred and egoistic life in the long run will surely lose it's enthusiasm fade out letting you down with low spirits.Have a dream to get to however simple and subtle it might be, DREAM WHICH WOULD NOURISH and duly contribute to the well being of those around you.

6.DOWN THE LINE comes the you factor, where focussing on you and keeping an intact health,following a good and healthy exercise regime with diverse and well patterned exercise routines is a no fail recipe to be motivated.

7.IT'S MOST OFTEN SAID AND PRACTISED reserve the best for the last.Here's my last tip to share  with all of you "GOD" OR "NATURE" OR "UNIVERSE" OR "ANY GOOD SUPER NATURAL POWER" YOU TRUST AND BELIEVE IN.Please follow being acquainted with that one single source you would ever believe in, that will derive and all the time supply you with motivation and positive energy you need every time in your life.

"When God pushes you to the edge, he would either catch you or let you fly"

You could be a believer or non-believer in the God this will work forever leaving you cordial yet independent.

HAPPY FOR ALL OF YOU AROUND 

PRETTY SURE THIS NOTE WOULD HAVE GIVEN YOU SOME GOOD PIECE OF SUPPORT TODAY,WISH AND HOPE YOU STAY SUFFICIENT AT HEART AND BLISSFUL WITH ALL THE MOTIVATION

LEAVING YOU HERE WITH ALL THE HOPE TO  CATCH YOU UP WITH ANOTHER USEFUL NOTE

Jane Fernandez