Hey to all out there
Check out my previous post for the first portion.....
Continuing my diction on parenting left you with the final topic "stays pampered in cases"
*Have trouble spending their leisure time
Yeah,this is the million dollar question of many Mommys,getting their kids engaged in a leisure routine.I always find this effective only when it is patterned according to the skillsets and interests of the child, well relaxation is nothing but doing something out of the routine.So the best thing is to get them doing something apart from their normal tasks beginning with little things like craft making,a sport engaging one or two players, painting or something like a Simply Piano exercise to do.Most of the ill things what kids do latter in their lives are formed only in the leisure time where they don't know what to do.So it's really, really important that they know how to manage their leisure time right from when they are small.....Mostly their loneliness get's them easily obsessed with gadgets or social media or may be Television it's good that we never get to encourage them doing it.
*Either are too talkative or reserved.This is a common problem among kids, either they find themselves very reluctant to talk things, address people or they get too talkative because they are left alone most of the time and feel like to vent out their feelings or emotions.....
*Exhibit possessiveness with people and things, they being single children and most of them normally have been the centre of attraction in their homes.....or family circles this get's them into the tendency of being possessive with people,relatives or things......The solution will be like possible with getting them exposed to family friendships,teaching them a bit of people handling and there's to be possessive about, their loved ones are always their loved ones but that they could open out much more.....
*Less sportsmanship is that they don't and can't take failures, defeats lightly, it is very important to indicate that they get introduced to failures learning how to handle them from when they are very small itself.........Please do teach them failures, when you face failures and your better ways of handling them shows them a valid example to practise too......
*Lack of sibling support or scarce friendship,In the long run they tend to become very closed, inexpressive at many a times.Problem in expression of thought arises, either making the child an introvert or extrovert.This even leads the children to situations where they don't convey their health issues properly or they don't know doing it....
A good social and school atmosphere is more motivating to the child as a solution to this problem instead of blindly practising home schooling.This goes a long way in making the child escape being an introvert........At times find very tough to handle things even petite things due to the attention given to them
The entire solution put in a nutshell to handle a single child lies in grooming the child to be independent in it's life, making them financially independent keeping their self confidence a bit high but emotionally dependent on parents, family and a healthy friend circle if achievable........
Hope this get's you going raising your child in a healthy way re insisting never to over parent the child doing all that's mentioned in my humble list invisibly like a catalyst.
Good luck
Wish and hope my post would have provided some insight towards parenting to you to an extent.
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By Jane Fernandez
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